The Twin Flame Union
A search. Vision.
Each one of us is born into a
body, as a clear slate of amnesia.
As a perfect or sometimes not
so perfect system.
A physical design of a
miraculous structure we call physicality.
It is here at birth that we
begin our search for the other half.
From day one the programs
begin to create themselves, emotions develop, along with the need for safety,
security, food and shelter. The creative force is planted, the power center
established, organs, arteries, veins and vessels, a heart beating, lungs,
everything connected with a need for oxygen. Vocal chords blasted into a crying
song, blurry eyes, pure consciousness. No thought of the unknown.
Simplicity in perfect,
Each step after birth becomes
but a series of experiences, accompanied by an inner wanting, a desire to know
why. Why we are here, why the grass grows, how the birds sing, why the bees
Around the age of three, we
know to question what we have learned, as if something fresh in our soul is
something deeper waiting to be discovered. Like a distant memory of something
we once knew. Innocent eyes that looked outward beyond what others could see
eventually find focus in a world hypnotized by ideals.
becomes the path of liberty, the freeing of a soul. A knowing. The one thing in
common we all seem to agree on. Something is missing.
By twelve or thirteen the
sensual needs have developed, a curiosity toward the opposite sex or in an
evolving world, an attraction to the same sex.
A pure heart, unsure of its
innocence, becomes a participant in an unknown scheme.
Through the many stages of
programmed evolution, we begin to ask with deeper questioning. Who am I? Why am
By that stage, comes the
frantic notion of having to find Prince Charming, get married and then “Start
A collectively established geyser
of pressure, more like a martyred intellectual goal.
Some of us find safety in
norms, others rebel against them like an inner charge, as if to defeat what has
become normal, boring or common. The misunderstood need for society’s approval,
the big question, “Who is my soul mate?” becomes the soul’s biggest quest. “Who
will make me feel complete?”
When relationships have failed
us, part of us becomes broken, tricked by disillusion, disappointment leaving
us bitter or in the search of revenge, and often left over-protected by what
didn’t seem to work. So we wash our hands, get up and continue the search.
On the rare occasion we find
that person who sparks a fire in our soul. All perceptions seem to silence for
a mere second. As if time never existed, an echo, like a blade on frozen ice. A
familiar wind passes by which whispers to your soul. A whisper that tells a
tale of unknown secrets. A heart beat that sparks a story you never dreamed you
Opposites. One is the gas the
other is the match, both an open wound.
Two languages, as one is foreign, the other spoken in sign.
Chemistry? A reaction? Two different
properties, as both act as intrinsic photons. Matter in manifest, behaving like
a particle. (The strangest thing with photons is that they have “dual identity,”
which some may call original schizophrenics : )
There are some really
“strange” laws about what photons/waves can and cannot do. And even though we
can count on them, and know them very well in some ways, the real reasons
behind their behavior is still open for questioning.
The heated debate amongst
scientists is how photons interact. What happens when two photons collide? Or
do they? There is no particle present in a vacuum – yet – to mediate
What we do know, and agree on,
is that light can certainly interact in a medium. Light interacts with things
like glass, water, silver, wood, etc. We see it refract, scatter and reflect,
and sometimes it favors different colors, like in the reflection from gold.
So what can science teach us
When atoms of gas or vapor
are excited by heating an electrical field, electrons are able to move from
their ground state to higher energy levels. As they return from their ground
state following clearly defined paths according to quantum probabilities, they
emit photons of very specific energy. This energy corresponds to particular
wavelengths of light and so produces particular colors of light. Each element
produces a different color of flame. Gas excitations play a major role in flame
To the heart of the matter:
Going beyond science,
matter/antimatter and all of that left brainy logic, we warp into an easier translation.
Each one of us has a unique
energetic “finger print” and is a vital part in the creation of a brilliant
Much like science, the twin
flame union can be tried and tested, explained, or more commonly, limited to a
belief. The truth remains by pointing to what is true.
“You can change what your
mind thinks, but you can not change what the heart feels,” and that, my friends,
is way beyond the senses. It takes us
into the heart of the quantum soul.
Why, you ask, do bees sting?
They actually work as a
fascinating team, in the realm of creation, crucial to the planet’s growing
crops. They do much more than just pollinate flowers and create honey.
Whenever you doubt the
connection you have to nature, doubt less and then watch how nature teaches us.
Mama Earth gives us everything we need to sustain our planet, just as the
frequency of chirping of birds helps the grass to grow. No different than human relationships.
The twin flame union is a
divine creation, a program within the Matrix, which even science could question, maybe
even answer, but can never prove. Awareness is an enormity of possibilities,
which are dictated by our very own freewill choices.
To even attempt to prove
the type of love that is created when twin flames connect is ridiculous.
It is the twin flame union that
is made to poke at our psyche, to ask if there is something missing. It shows
us the energetics of creation, to prove that, yes, there is something beyond
the physical connections we experience.
Some say the twin flame union
is the most blissful, harmonious, balanced relationship you can create. When
two awakened souls meet they complete, or begin, a long, planned out sequence.
energy. One soul, separated, has evolved as two separate souls for many
lifetimes. Splitting of energy, to teach beyond perceptions. This, of course is
all just a theory, and perhaps limited, like many theories to a mythology of
beliefs. Again, hard to determine.
With some experience in this
field, I have come to see that often in a physical world there are many factors
that the ego would like to remember, which could actually make this union quite
difficult. There may be quite reasonable reasons to avoid each other, a sense
of loss or a feeling of danger, rejection, confusion, mistruth and even
victimization. The relation can be full of steam, fire, heat and cold,
depending on the particular soul contract as well as the makeup of the
But, always with purpose to
stimulate a sleeping part of each other. Where the impossible becomes possible,
a string of enlightenment is tweaked. Often a push and pull scenario. Fusion? Collision?
When we are trapped in the
illusion of separation from each other it hurts, because it is not within the
laws of divine truth.
Yes the heart at times feels
like it has shattered, but with time, one realizes that the heart cannot be
broken. It continues to beat, just as it is designed to do.
Through the many stages of a
twin flame union, the heart releases the need to control thought. It
communicates in unspoken words. The heart knows unconditional love.The heart
recognizes divine love, which never abandons and never rejects.
Paradigms are meant to be
shattered but hearts are not.
The twin flame union will
bring you down to your depths, and back up to your highest frequency. One is
the gas that lights the fire, teaching the match how to burn, without being
burnt. The match holds the memory of what is beyond illusion.
Before matches, two rocks
would be rubbed together, creating a spark with simple friction.
Like an internet signal, when
the direct connection is not aligned, progress often takes longer than we would
This fiery union goes beyond
physical perception, with no need to reveal more illusions of suffering. A bee stings, when it feels aggravated. After the bee stings, then it dies. One is left to wonder if perhaps the sting is not the
main purpose of a bee. I also am left to wonder if a bee, like us, has an
option to re-incarnate, evolving into a different species?
Every twin flame union is
completely unique, many do not ever even meet. This is happening often on a
grand scale with new age communication and technology, which can only go so
This comes down to a simple choice involving the free will of two people.
Regardless, of the outcome the energetics
created by this connection makes a shift on some level, physical or not. Noted
in both counterparts.
It is absolutely possible to
love someone you do not know.
I suppose that is the closest
you get to divine love on this realm.
Besides perhaps holding your
With time in this space,
passing through stages, surrender becomes a need. The inner war must come to a halt to some
degree. There is no more room for judgment or even expectations, simply acceptance
of something rare, marinated in beauty by allowing surrender to be exactly what
In my own twin flame union, I
became “caught up” with a proud man from another country who hardly spoke my
language. It was a relationship born of
energetics, taken into the physicality of artificial intelligence. Odd and very profound.
After some unbalanced past
relationships, I always insisted I was through with the macho type who could
not handle my height or my bold and shiny light. I thought I knew what I wanted,
knowing I would end up with a man taller than me. My flame? Shorter than me, he
hardly reached my breasts :)
Regardless, I continue to love him anyway, beyond his
strong and hard-to-understand accent, and I see through the reasons of the
wounds, past all the barriers of a language that I hardly speak. He rarely comes to visit my
peaceful, quiet town. If he does, I do not resist my intention to finally meet
him. Even though, for some reason he likely will not call.
Left too vulnerable,
in midst of major miscommunication, then being shouted at, I have no desire to
attempt that myself again.
Oh, those foreigners can get passionate, alright!
I know at some point, without
trying so hard to make it happen, that I will manifest the true version of what
I really want: a relationship with no limits or borders, unified in energy and in
physicality, a different sort of collision.
In learning the tough lesson,
there are just some things you cannot control. Freewill is a factor I respect,
so I choose to let go of what I think “should” happen, since “could” is an
Love, I believe, is meant to
be much easier.
What would relationships be like if you got all of the hard
stuff out of the way from the beginning?
I guess when you don’t have the
need to settle anymore, everyone grows taller, as you set your standard boldly,
and only reach for the stars.
acceptance closes all the stages of forgiveness.
One knows that fuel is cosmic
gas intended to warm a cold, hardened heart, exploding it into light.
An inner peace through
knowing that in a circle there is no beginning and no end.
What is true may change.
The truth is now set free.
Two opposites sustain each
other in unexplained ways.
In the justification of
polarity, duality becomes harmonious.
Maybe the purpose of the twin
flame is just that simple.
Human love, different from
divine love, has many ups and downs, with the purpose to help us to remember
who we really are.
Innocent, newborn, babies.
Into a whole new way to see
each one coming out of
amnesia (the proverbial cosmic vagina) into collective, cosmic ascension.
LOVE is a language we all
The only language we all can
feel, and relate to. With few words needed.
Yet we continue to find an
explanation, in search of the other half.
Since we have come here to express
and experience all of this emotion. To live it, to analyze it, to express it,
and eventually to warp
out of our bodies into the
larger, more peaceful place of non-duality.
In the meantime, we attempt
to muse both worlds, in a harmonious manner, centered in the temple of trust.
The other half is always
Is the other half.
And because everyone loves a
happy ending, I leave you with this,
until we meet again.
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likes a conclusion
but a rhyme
When the rain pours down
over a story
to wash illusions of time
Cracked and shattered
Or warriors of divine flame
The smell of thunder comes
to unveil the thoughts of
Forgotten spectrums of light
followed by the feeling
of a long and cold dark night
Three roads lifted
fighting Gotham’s crime
one is veiled the other
dancing cheek to cheek
Bliss of nature’s story
only hearts could seek
Taking off the veil
secrets finally unfold
one clue at a time
only by nature’s flock
for too long
she had hidden
her seeing eyes
So there it was
A path of simple signs
both sitting in the
Pearls within a
through the pictures
her vision awakened
one eye yet again
through the woven lies
her eye that sees
like a hawk
Volcanic fire bursting
in all directions
the flame was burning
as vinegar filled the wound
out of tune
A pained caterpillar
of tight cocoon
Twin flame there is only one
Maybe a solo journey
could help those records flip
of black and white
into feisty water
exhausted from this fight
Perched upon water’s edge
looking deep deep down
thundery waters of might
Down into the mouth
to erase her frown
she found a great surprise
Where she saw her
very own rainbow
in the maid
amongst the mist
there seemed a
shaking a silver fist
Plummeting spirit of the land
feist of nature’s sound
pummeled into fury
a taste of heaven’s right
This was no longer
hers to carry
now give it all away
for her to hold
can I take part of
him with me?
bowl of transcend
can I clear out all his
She created an evil
Sort of wave
As if in shouting order
screamed a voice
oh she said it loudly
to the broken woman
NO! Only you can go.
For you have heard my call
Into divine shower
the feisty water wept
throwing out old
of scribbled words
much more in life
Stepping off that boat
her soul back into light
something in fact had changed
she no longer felt the cold
Then came the connection
a pot overflowing with gold
full of glory
a higher view
now the other hand
A new story as music played
as she went around and around
made by hardened sand
A touch of warmth
wrapped in gold
There it was
as if lost
So when you think
you are not intertwined
in all she does
Or when you think
really do not exist
simply feel it
Then feel again
So then that is the end
of my lengthy story
that has made me very
Now it is past time
for a much,
much easier theme
because I am absolutely
at the proverbial seam
a mended broken heart
the circle is done
is much more fun!
Along I walk the river bed
With no wild story
In my head
Back in the flow of life
Only love is what I am sending
Since I am the writer
with a very
Forever I will be spinning
Silky golden threads
Margo Denay Bereska
Do you have some questions about your sacred relationships?
I have explored this realm for quite some time.
I would be thrilled to connect with you!
Feel free to contact me for a reading